“If you feel particularly caught off guard by your sex dream, it might function as fuel that encourages you to explore your sexuality in other ways,” she says.īut if the only reason you’re Googling “am i lesbian?” is because you had a sex dream… no, you’re not a lesbian. There are many other reasons you might have a “lesbian sex dream” that have nothing to do your sexual orientation, she says. “Having sex with someone in a dream isn’t the same as being a lesbian,” says Katrina Knizek, a lesbian and sex therapist who specializes in helping people explore their sexuality.
Your dreamscape alone isn’t reason enough to doubt your sexuality or to begin identifying as a lesbian. Am I lesbian if I had a spicy sex dream with someone of a similar gender?
